A Royal Chapters End

October has been one of our quieter months. I’ve had to put aside considerable time to evaluate career paths, future dreams, and priorities as well as reflect on the very many lessons and valuable opportunities I’ve been granted.

Early in the month I had the pleasure of making an address at the CWA (Country Women’s Association) Annual Conference. Moments before I stood up to speak, the Mayor, Greg Conkey, shared a few words of encouragement and valuable insight into the work of CWA. Mr Mayor became most unhelpful when he began to share words of encouragement towards me, bringing me nearly to tears right before my address! Just one of the many examples of what a great man he is to uplift those around him.

Presslea and I were fortunate to meet once more with our Titleholder Coordinator, Sarah Navin aka ‘Queen Bee’, and she gave us some much-needed support and advice as the chapter draws to a close and new adventures lie before us. We attended the 50th Annual Convention of the Lions Club with members far and wide travelling to our beloved city. This was followed by my final Citizenship Ceremony at the Wollundry Lagoon where 40 people became Citizens of Australia followed by Fusion Festivities. These ceremonies have been some of my favourites, and to be at the very last one was quite emotional. We attended our last meeting presentation at Rotary Club of Wagga Wagga Murrumbidgee late this month with both of us holding back tears as we shared our experiences of Nördlingen, the Quest and working with each other. Someone pass us some tissues at crowning, we’re going to need them!

In September I ran a Public Speaking Workshop for Wagga Wagga Public School. This month I was asked to return to my former primary school, the very place that taught me the national anthem when I first arrived to Australia, to judge their Public Speaking Competition. I felt like I had come a full circle in the 18 years I’ve embraced living in Australia. I could not have dreamed of a more fitting way to end my Miss Wagga Wagga Quest engagements.

Presslea and I have spent the last few moments soaking up the memories with a relaxing pedicure at Circa 1929, followed by drinks and dinner at the Roundabout Restaurant with the entrants of 2020. 

Blessed. That’s the only word adequate enough to express what these last 11 months in the reign have been like. It has been my honour and a privilege to represent the City of Wagga Wagga as young female ambassador for just short of a year.

Thank you to YOU, the people of Wagga Wagga who embraced us as titleholders from the moment we were crowned and welcomed us into a platform and a space so much bigger than us. To everyone who gave us a chance, from the numerous service meetings, Rotary, Probus, Inner Wheel etc. to school engagements, from Mayoral Receptions to city functions. Thank you for believing in us!

To the Mayor and Mayoress, Greg and Jenny, you know exactly what we think of you, and how we feel about you both, but allow us to publicly note that we have such high regard for you as individuals, as a pair, and Greg, in your office as Mayor. At every turn, you both placed your efforts in getting to know us, and to give us as many opportunities to grow as possible. You have left a very familial mark in our hearts and have taught us so much! I cannot thank you enough.

To all the community organisations, the Quest, Quest supporters and sponsors of last year and this, especially Triple M and Hit Fm breakfast radio hosts who supported and encouraged us behind the scenes. To our respective employers and all the Junior Miss Wagga Wagga Program sponsors and supporters especially Epica Jewellers and North Wagga Public School, as well as the parents who placed their trust in me. From the bottom of my heart, Thank You.

To my employers, especially my colleagues at Relationships Australia Canberra & Region who made this Quest journey a reality; my family (my biological family in Norway, and my chosen family in Australia) who have listened to me every day for the last 11 months talk about the role, and my friends who have been cheering me at literally EVERY TURN. I cannot thank you enough for holding me up.

Finally, to my Princess, Presslea Cowan. It was almost destined. From the moment I met her at our first Professional Development there was just something about Pres. As the entrant year rolled, and we worked together on our events, her consistency, fight and heart became so clear. As Pres made her crowning acceptance speech with a promise ‘to put the community before myself’ I knew, Wagga had found the perfect titleholder and ambassador. During the titleholder year I have seen her weather storms and fight tough battles, I have seen her eyes light up with overwhelming excitement and joy, and I’ve seen her well up with tears of pride. Through it all, one thing was abundantly clear, she may be a strong physical training instructor, and an honourable soldier, but she is first and foremost a formidable woman, and that has been so inspiring!

Princess Pres, I will never forget that moment I realised you looked on me like a sister, because it was in that moment that I realised that’s exactly what we had become. There I found the reason as to why I felt the pride that I did when your name was called as titleholder; why my heart has ached in your sorrows, and been elated in your joys; why I was honoured to stand by you on Anzac Day, and why I’m blessed to have journeyed this royal year with you.
Who knew I would gain family by joining the Quest?
A blessed ending to a royal chapter.
 
Yours truly, 
Miss Wagga Wagga 2019, Stina Constantine

Superb September

September meant packed bags and jumping on a few planes to Germany, arriving into Munich in the late afternoon in time to unwind and catch up for a meal and drinks with the Mayor and Mayoress of Wagga. We sat and soaked up the live musical entertainment near Karlsplatz while enjoying bratwurst.

The following morning, I took a stroll through the city on foot soaking up the history and architecture of Munich, spending a little time in Marienplatz before heading back to the hotel to meet up with Community Princess and the remainder of the Wagga Delegation. David Wittner came to meet up and take us 2 hours away to our Sister City Nördlingen. The drive was perfect for Presslea and I to finally catch up on her incredible holiday through Europe prior to the Sister City visit.

A couple of short hours of settling into our hotels began what would be a full but SUPER itinerary of fun for the next few days. The Oberbürgermeister Hermann Faul invited us and the delegates from Markham to dinner giving us a chance to meet, mingle and be introduced to Real Nördlingen Hospitality. 

The following day we were taken to a nearby castle, Castle Baldern and treated to a guided tour with a fabulous tour guide, including visiting the newly opened gardens for the Princess. The Castle history, and décor was incredible, but were mainly off limits to photography. One of the Markham delegates also tested out the acoustics of the ballroom with a bit of Waltzing Matilda on a mouth organ. We took a long stroll through the gardens followed by a light lunch before heading back to the City where the Markham town crier was able to call the ‘So G’sell So’ (All is well) from the top of the bell tower, as has been done between the hours of 10pm and midnight every night since the days of war. By the time we had returned to Nördlingen, the town had completely transformed and transported us right back to historical days of old. Every corner suddenly was unfamiliar, but with such depth and attention to detail.

The official Stadtmauerfest began with Ecumenical Evening Prayer, followed by the first parade of the ceremony. Simone was kind enough to stay with us and explain what was going on around us. The famous Nördlingen stork visited the nest at the top of the building that afternoon also. Simone explained that it is a sign of good fortune for the stork to visit, but that young women shouldn’t look directly at it as it might just bring a baby their way. We all had a chuckle. Walking around the streets afternoon was a bit surreal with nearly every person saying ‘that’s Miss Wagga Wagga’ and for those that mistook us for Miss Germany, Community Princess was quick to correct them.

Saturday morning I took a stroll through the city, and walked the city wall. The bell tower, the loving ‘Daniel’ really stands majestically in the middle of the city. From the wall I could see hidden pockets of the city I just couldn’t seem to find in the evening. Then the Oberbürgermeister invited all Sister City delegates to a formal welcome, where each was able to speak to their unique relationship with Nördlingen, followed by exchange of gifts. It was quite a beautiful welcome and in the words of the Markham Town Crier ‘peace doesn’t begin with politicians, it begins with people, and it’s what we’re doing here.’ He was spot on, that one-to-one relationship with people is at the heart of national and international peace. We were treated to lunch at Karl-Schlierf-platz followed by Presslea and I choosing to climb over 300 steps to get to the top of the Daniel tower. Then we went and watched the next parade before we roamed the historical streets of Nördlingen for the remainder of the festival with good food, entertainment and of course beer. There were so many laughs and so many new memories made. 

Sunday began with mass at Sank Salvator with a local priest Father Benjamin Beck, the Oberbürgermeister and his wife, and a completely packed church, with songs accompanied by a local band. The singing of a full church was entirely uplifting. I then raced back to the hotel, taking a wrong turn on the way, quickly popped on my sash and crown, and was escorted up the staircase by a lovely gentleman to the formal reception hosted by the Oberbürgermeister. Presslea and I took some time to walk through the room and meet with some new people including city delegates from Stollberg (Germany), Riom (France), Olomouc (Czech Republic), city counsellors, and ministers of parliament, before heading off to the Festival Parade where we were able to participate to represent Australia with the entire city and neighbouring cities turning out, and special guests including the Prime Minister of Bavaria, Markus Söder. We took some time walking around before meeting up to witness the closing ceremony of the Stadtmauerfest. By morning, the city returned to it’s modern state, and again I was left feeling like it was unfamiliar once more.

To the Wagga travel delegates, Mayor Greg Conkey and Mayoress Jenny Conkey, Deputy Mayor Dallas Tout and his wife Jeanine Tout, the Tanner Family and Community Princess (and unofficial Bobby), thanks for such an incredible time, you were all such great company to travel with. I’ll be returning with a lot of new memories.

The entire Stadtmauerfest, and my time in Nördlingen really made me realise just why we're sister cities. The people of Nördlingen are so optimistic, and have such admirable commitment and dedication to their foundations, their history and their culture. To someone who comes from a historically young western culture in Australia, this was so eye opening. Outside of the formal duties and functions were all the conversations we had with the various people we met from entertainers, to council members, to stall holders to people who were born, raised and returned to live in Nördlingen. At the heart of us, we’re the same. the People of Wagga and Nördlingen are generous, kind, and entirely welcoming.

As most of the other delegates left Nördlingen at 5am, I had a much needed sleep in until 8 and left for Frankfurt meeting up with a friend, prior to heading to Norway for 2 weeks to spend time with my family, and meet my 10-and-a-half-month old Nephew. I spent my 2 weeks just slowing down, resting, and having quality time, but I also took the opportunity to reflect and make decision about where I want to head personally, career wise, and spiritually as I head back to Australia.

Having arrived back into Wagga, our formal duties started up the same afternoon for me with a Citizenship Ceremony giving us a chance to catch up with Mayor Greg Conkey and his wife once more. These ceremonies are always such a privilege to attend, hearing the stories of new families with much and many years hardship pledging to make Australia their home. The ceremony set in the art gallery brought back a flood of memories of Crowning Day, which is less than 5 weeks away now! 

- Stina, your local Queen

​The Princess Diaries, September 2019 

My travels began late August, I left Wagga Wagga and travelled to Turkey, Greece, Switzerland and my final destination Nördlingen, Germany. 

I met up with the Wagga Wagga delegation and my Miss Wagga Wagga where we had a beautiful lunch before jumping in our car to Nördlingen where I got to fill everyone in on my travels. 

We arrived in Nördlingen and let me tell you, add it to the bucket list to travel to, I was just amazed at the beauty of this city, surrounded by its wall and filled with small old houses all different colours! We had a wonderful dinner that evening, I have never had so much food in my life but it was just delicious, all of it! We took a stroll back to our hotel and the weather was so just beautiful! (A little better than our cold winter back here). 

Now I know you’ve been reading about our trip for a while and you have all of the details so I’ll add in what I can. 

The following day we took a trip to Baldern Castle, with a guided tour. Have you ever wanted to be a princess in a castle? I mean I didn’t stay the night but it’s as close as I’ll ever get to this, so it was like something out of the movies, I think the highlight for me was the garden and it’s chickens, every colour flower you could ever imagine! 

That evening was the opening ceremony of the Stadtmauerfest festival, something I will never forget! To think we are related (sister cities) with Nördlingen is crazy because the people of Nördlingen and the people of Wagga Wagga have a lot in common, not many cities can pull off a festival or event with full community participation and open hearts. It’s one of those fuzzy warm moments that you’ll always remember. The ceremony was great and so exciting to see everyone taking part in the festival. Did I mention I did quickly buy a costume so that I could really embrace the whole festival? It made it so much more fun! 

As the festival continued, Stina and myself continued to meet as many people as we could, take part in anything we could and eat everything we could! (I definitely had tight jeans by the flight home). 

I will forever be grateful for the opportunity to represent Wagga Wagga, walking through the parade slightly behind Miss Wagga Wagga and watching the eyes light up of so many people “ah WAGGA WAGGA” waving! Was just surreal!

My travels home began early in the morning, leaving Nördlingen and spending the day in Munich before jumping on my flight home. As soon as I got home I was straight back to work the following day. 

Awaiting the return of Miss Wagga Wagga, I had a busy few weeks at work and then was finally able to catch up with Stina at the Citizenship Ceremony last week. 
It was definitely a busy month! But just such an amazing experience! 

With crowning just around the corner (yes I’m getting very emotional about it) I’m excited for the final month, October and our 2020 entrants' last event! 

​- Presslea, your local princess. 

Amazing August

August started with the RAN (Royal Australian Navy) Sunset Ceremonial Service, recommissioning the flagstaff in the Victory Memorial Garden and Mayoral Reception. It was such a privilege to witness a beautiful ceremony, filled with tradition, Navy band music, and blank shots and a moment to reflect on the lives lost for our freedom. 

It was also a pleasure to attend the Mayoress’ fundraising concert, Supernova for Wagga’s Carevan Projects. A combination of all Wagga secondary school talents, including those currently incarcerated. The talent in this city is incredible, from musical instruments to dancing, from singing to rap. Everything from old school rock, to hits from The Greatest Showman. What a night. Congratulations to Mrs Jenny Conkey for pulling together such a great event.

A busy month of August with our preparations for our travel to Germany continued with it just around the corner. I, Presslea was privileged to present my first Community Princess Foundation cheque to Goodstart Estella, who will be using the money to build a fruit and veggie garden for the families of Estella to utilise. I am excited to present my second cheque upon return from Germany! I still have 2 further cheques I can present, so please visit the Miss Wagga Wagga webpage for further information and the application process (It’s very simple).

We attended the 2020 entrants second event of the year, ‘An afternoon in lace; High Tea’. It was a fantastic afternoon with delicious food and a great variety of tea. I, Presslea, was able to bring my mum to this event while she was visiting which was so exciting. We enjoyed listening to the amazing music by Tom & Harry and speakers from Wagga Women in Business and Richmond Football Club whilst catching up with many friends during the afternoon, my mum even walked away with a silent auction item! As both Presslea and I, Stina, hosted this very event last year at the Riverine Club as entrants, there were a lot of memories that flooded back to us. It was also such a delight to meet with some of the entrants of 2019 who also attended the afternoon. The entrants of 2020 should be very proud of their efforts!

As the month quickly came to an end, I, Presslea, began packing my bags for my trip away. Stina and I said our final good-byes before heading overseas at Wagga's new sister city signs that can be found at the front of the Wagga Visitors Centre, where we got a quick photo and spoke to Daina from the Daily Advertiser about our trip.

Mid-August I, Stina, was invited to breakfast with the early birds of Sunrise Rotary Club before speaking with them about my personal journey and the Miss Wagga Quest. They were so full of energy and enthusiasm; it really showcased not only the passion but also the generosity that the people of our city value. On the commemoration of the 50th Anniversary of Vietnam Veterans Day, I was also able to attend the August Citizenship Ceremony alongside Mayor Greg Conkey, Deputy Prime Minister Michael McCormack, Member for Wagga Wagga Dr Joe McGirr and Shadow Minister for Veterans Affairs and Defence Personnel Shayne Neuman, in welcoming new citizens from across the seas. Pedme Phua, known in our community as a budding K-Pop artist, along side her family was among our new Citizens.

The month continued with being invited on to Triple M to chat with Leigh and meet his new co-host Poppy, whilst Dan is on maternity leave. It was a pleasure chatting all things the Quest and Nördlingen. We also noticed Visit Wagga are starting to use some of the photos from the photoshoot we did with them a couple of months ago showcasing what Wagga has on offer and we’re thrilled they were able to get the shots they were after. On my way to purchase my annual Daffodil Day flowers, I was able to speak with Maddie Smith, Community Princess 2018, who is still very much actively involved in our community and was helping out Cancer Council at a stall. Once a Community Princess, always a Community Princess.

The last week of the month has been intense getting ready to depart for Nördlingen, everything from picking up tickets to picking up trinkets; from organising my suitcase to booking appointments in October, ready to roll upon my return. I also had the absolute privilege of returning to the very first primary school I attended when we first arrived in Australia, Wagga Wagga Public School. In the very place that I was taught what an assembly, a tuckshop and eucalyptus lollies were; how to tie a tie, bowl a cricket ball and sing the national anthem; I was able to share my personal journey as well as run a ‘How to do Public Speaking’ interactive talk with some 315 students. A huge thank you to Ella Farquar for suggesting me to the SRC and the staff at Wagga Public especially Nada Pakoney for inviting me along.

My final duty for the month was participating in a project on the potential of the Special Activation Precinct with Oona Nielssen from The Department of Planning Industry and Environment, Sydney, Adam Drummond and the team including Damien from Next in line Films, Cameron and Photographer Denise Yates from Grenfell. It was a pleasure working with you all in the Island and Bamboo Garden, at the Botanic Gardens. The gazebo with the Miss Wagga Wagga Quest plaque was only metres away from us, and seeing it reminded me just how privileged it is to be in this role with over 70 women having walked in these steps before me. 
  
So here we are. We’ve brushed up on our German, our automated messages are now set, and we’re so ready to embrace everything Germany has to offer us. We hope to do Wagga proud. Thank you to the people of this City who have helped us to learn, be as immersed in the community as possible, allowing us the best chance of representing our City in Nördlingen.
Tchuss!
  
Love from MWW & CP,
AKA your local Queen & Princess

Jubilant July

The month started with a speaking engagement at Wollundry Probus meeting where we were able to share about our quest journey as entrants, and working within our passions in the community as titleholders. It was wonderful to chat to the women of the Wollundry Probus as they were interested in learning about where we have come from, what we do and what we hope to achieve with the remainder of our year.

We were also invited to participate in another #VisitWagga initiative with Next in line Films. I, Stina, paid Circa 1929 a visit for a pedicure and filming session. A few days later, we both attended Romanos for a drink with a friend of ours Scott Cox for further filming, followed by a stroll around the Victory Memorial Garden. We can’t wait to see what the finished product will look like.

The Inaugural Junior Miss Wagga Wagga Program was a huge hit!!! With 15 girls fundraising for their community impact; to assist Child Therapy at the Paediatric and Adolescent Ward at Wagga Base Hospital. This was followed by 2.5 days of workshops affording the girls a head start in becoming future community leaders. The incredible growth was so clear at the Junior Entrant Interviews on Day 3, not only what they had learned in terms of content and skill, but the deep reflection and person growth was beyond their years. This was followed by a presentation evening where each Junior Entrant received a completion certificate, their total fundraising efforts were announced as well as special awards given.

Presslea and I awarded one young girl an additional certificate because of the level of growth we witnessed in her from day 1 to day 3, her confidence and personal reflection of her growth truly inspired us. Allira McCracken, you left quite the impression! 3 additional awards were also given each with a sash and brooch, who would go on to represent the entrants at the Cheque Presentation and media interviews. Junior Charity Queen Award Recipient, 11yr old Alexandra Wallace, for most innovative fundraising ideas and ability to speak about them; Junior Community Princess Award Recipient, 10yr old Ginger Lyons, for positive attitude, encouraging of others and ability to work well in a team; Junior Miss Wagga Wagga Award Recipient, 11yr old Rebekah Law, for being an all-rounder with positive attitude and encouraging of others.
A HUGE Congratulations to all 15 girls, you have left quite an impact on each other, the community and certainly in us. I cannot wait to shake your hand in less than a decade as each of you go on to make a valuable contribution in your own leadership roles of your community. 

This winter holiday program was only possible thanks to an incredibly community that pulled together their strengths. From North Wagga Public School and Commercial Club that donated their venues, to Epica Jewellers that donated a brooch to each of the special award recipients; family and friends that supported the fundraising initiatives of the Junior Entrants to generous well known community members that offered their time, skills and knowledge to the girls. A deep, sincere thank you also to the following:
Community Princess 2019 Presslea Cowan
Wagga City Council – Jenny Conkey
Inner Wheel Wagga Wagga and Wollundry
Wagga Screen Printing & Embroidery
Hit 93.1 Riverina – Herbie & Triple M Riverina - Leigh
Australian Army – Darren Mead
Sheree Ridley
Riverina Murray Family Referral Service – Mandy and Erica
Love Bites Program
Brooke Brunskill – Soul Collective (former Miss Wagga Entrant)
Prime7 News Wagga – Rochelle
2AAA - Marguerite McKinnon 
Lifestyles – Melissa Judd
Marie-Clare Grosfeld
& 2020 Entrants Hannah Smith, Tegan Nash and Brittany Hackett.

The girls raised a total of $8,375 for the ward, leaving many of the staff in tears as the cheque was revealed. Thank you Cassie Styles and Kelly Murray from the ward for being so receptive to the initiative and encouraging of the girls.

I, Presslea would also like to give a massive congratulations and thank you to my Miss Wagga Wagga Stina - who used her creative initiative to create the entire Junior Miss Wagga Wagga program and dedicated hours of work to make it come to life! Her commitment to this was amazing and I could not be prouder of her. The young women we met during the program will surely make amazing role models and leaders within our community, taking after so many women like myself and Stina who hope to influence our younger generation.

We were then able to meet up with our co-ordinator Sarah Navin for a much needed debrief on all things Titleholders, and our upcoming trip to Germany. Our trip is just around the corner and it was so exciting to once again hear about what we can expect on our travels.

I, Stina, attended a second Probus meeting this month to talk all things Entrant year, crowning, titleholder year and about my personal growth. The ladies were such an active group with walking groups, card groups and even book clubs. They were all so fired up to see change in our community, it equally motivated me in return.

Our last Friday of the month was quite a packed one with yet another Citizenship Ceremony, welcoming new families as Australians in our community, followed by running to a formal Scottish Burns Supper. A night filled with Scottish dancing, poetry, International Guest Bradley Wells, singing, and of course Whiskey and Haggis. I, Stina, was asked to make a light-hearted reply to the laddies’ speech to the lassies in the room. The talk was filled with a bit of jest followed by a reminder of the goodness that is found within many valiant men who not only do the right thing but look out for others in the community. A reminder of comparison not nearly being as important as complement.

The month ended with Push up challenge, for 21 days we have been doing a number of pushups as part of the push-up challenge to raise awareness for mental health! It was hard! Our arms were sore but we did not stop! In total across the world over $2.3 million dollars was raised! And for an amazing cause.

We are officially on the count down and when we chat to you next Presslea will be in Europe travelling awaiting the arrival of Stina where they will meet in Munich before heading to our sister city Nördlingen. 

Love from MWW & CP
AKA your local Queen and Princess 

Joyous June

This month has been a rather steady one with both of being able to attend the Domestic Violence Panel ‘My Story, Our Story’ with Ray Martin hosted by Wagga City Council. The evening sparked a range of topical questions, from whether it should be known as Domestic Violence, or simply ‘Violence’ to practical ways of changing attitude. The panellists were able to share not only their experience but their contributions to the solution. The words that remain with us came from our very own Mayor, Greg Conkey ‘As the saying goes, what we walk past is the standard we’re willing to accept. We are no longer willing to walk past this’ , Wagga will no longer be accepting the standard of Domestic Violence! It was a fantastic event to attend and great to see the room filled with members of the community supporting the cause!

I (Stina) was finally able to sit down with my dear mentor and Titleholder Co-ordinator Sarah Navin (Miss Wagga Wagga 2017) stopping in Wagga for a very quick visit. What a blast that was! The time flew past as we discussed all things, work/life balance, mental health, Quest year, upcoming sister city visit and the excitement of upcoming JUNIOR PROGRAM!!!! There has been so much going on in the background to make this program happen, with less than 3 weeks until the workshops to begin. It’s such a treasure to have Sarah as our titleholder co-ordinator, cheering and supporting us through all of our endeavours!

Middle of the month was the time for more formal functions with a Mayor Reception, seeing Robyn Gillespie, a local woman become the new Inner Wheel Australia President. It was lovely to hear so very many stories of their connection and involvement with Inner Wheel for so many years. There may have been a significant number of attempts at recruitment also. The following day The Blood Bank celebrated its milestone donor achievements with 50, 100, 150, 200 and EVEN 250! Blood donations!!! As a regular donor myself, this was simply incredible to part of. It was also fitting that the Regional Director Sue, congratulated Neil and the Team in Wagga for making the blood bank what it is, and ensuring everyone has a joyful time, instilling the desire to return. Congratulations and keep up the amazing work!

Presslea and I were able to attend the One Door Sunflower House hosted Mental Health Panel, with a short and intriguing talk from Psychologist, Timothy Carey on Surviving and Thriving. He left quite the impression, and it wasn’t just his loud shirt (as he pointed out), it was the challenging concepts including, mental health is not an ‘imbalance’ of chemicals requiring medication, rather it is a variety of circumstances and situations that poses an unfamiliar challenge to the person. Again it was fantastic to see so many members of the community out late that evening supporting the event and sharing stories.

Later in the month I was invited to the Wollundry Inner Wheel meeting to speak about the Quest, my journey thus far and the Junior Miss Wagga Wagga Program. These ladies were such a delight and so welcoming. Their generosity has also afforded us their assistance in the running of the JuniorMWWP and we are so grateful.

We attended the 2020 Entrants' first event of the year ‘A night at the movies’ trivia. Stina dressed as Esmeralda and myself (Presslea) as Wonder Woman (who was close to being best dressed however lost to the lucky cat). The event was a great success and such a fun night! Stina won paper, scissors, rock, Herbie did a fantastic job hosting the night and the girls kept us on ur toes with some very tricky questions! We came equal 10th, so maybe next time we need to do some study before trivia! Congratulations to Brittany, Erica, Hannah, Hayley, Margie, Montanna and Tegan on a Successful First Event!

Stina and I paid a visit to Flight Centre to finalise our flights to Nördlingen, we can’t believe how quickly the year is going by. After our visit we attended Lost Lanes, all rugged up finding warmth by the fire. We had the delicious pasta from Knights Meats, the atmosphere was brilliant as always and we ran into former entrant and current committee member Clare who has just returned from Nördlingen, she shared her stories from the trip which made us super excited!

I, Presslea, attended Wagga Wagga High School to assist with their Chicktionary program once again. I ran a PT session which was fantastic out in the sun and the girls did a great job, followed by a chat about ‘what is physical health and well-being’, the girls had great input and I really enjoyed being able to run another of these sessions.

We’re so excited for what looks like it will be a full month in July!

Love from MWW & CP
AKA your local Queen and Princess 

Mega May

The Month began with a very warm welcome to Mary Potter Nursing Home (one of 2019’s Beneficiaries) where we met with CEO Evan Roberts, Director of Nursing Tania Tellus and Executive Assistant Helen Supple. We were overwhelmed to be asked to place a plaque of thanks on the electric bed which was purchased with the funds we raised. This allowed greater safety and livelihood for one more resident. Later in the month we were also invited to Loretto Home of Compassion (another 2019 Quest Beneficiary) to place a plaque on the oxygen concentrator which was purchased with the funds we raised. The timing was impeccable as one of their machines had just broken down, and renting becomes quite expensive.

Ahead of the Quest 2020 launch, I (Stina) attended the hair and makeup professional development session with the entrants at Lulu & Kit. It was heart warming to see these young ladies really starting to bond and get along so well with each other. The 2020 Launch at the Country Club took the both of us right back down memory lane. Everything from the nerves, to the elusive bread and butter situation, to being sashed and badged. It was our honour to MC the evening and filled us with a nostalgic joy. The entrants spoke fantastically in their speeches and it was great to learn ‘what Wagga Wagga means to them’.

Mid May I (Stina) had the incredible pleasure of Announcing the Inaugural Junior Miss Wagga Wagga Program for the Winter School Holidays. This has been in the works with careful planning for several months. It was so exciting to FINALLY be able to share it with the community, and you have been incredible in your support. With only 30 spaces available, after just 3 days since opening applications, 1/3 of the positions were already filled! Fundraising begins next week and with only a month and a half to go until the holiday program days, it has well and truly coming together.

I, Presslea, attended the unveiling of the plaque for the 2019 walk of honour recipient, Cecil ‘Bob’ Scott. It was a lovely morning and a very proud moment for Cecil and his family. The plaque can be found at 66 Baylis Street.

Later in the month, I (Stina) was invited to read "Alpacas with Maracas" for National Simultaneous Story Time to promote a love for reading at Possum’s Childcare. All the children were anticipating a ‘Real Life Princess’. I may not be a real-life princess, but with every ‘I can see the Princess! The Princess is here! Hello Princess! Thank you Princess, Bye Bye’ I certainly felt like one; an incredibly privileged one.  The following morning was the Biggest Morning Tea hosted by the Mayor at Wagga Wagga City Council raising much needed funds for the Cancer Council for both research and family support. As an employee at Country Hope, working with local ill children, it was incredibly important I also support initiatives that support our local ill adults also.

I, Presslea, met with Sarah Groves from Headspace to discuss some upcoming events that I may be able to take part in and to learn all about what Headspace in Wagga Wagga do and their support to the community.

The month ended with a milestone celebration for us both, 6 months into the reign. We travelled to the Wagga Visitors centre followed by a walk through the botanical gardens and concluded with dinner at Bay85. We can’t believe how quickly the last 6 months have gone and are excited for the next months to follow.
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Yours truly,
MWW & CP
AKA your local Queen & Princess

Ambitious April.
 
We started the month reunited with celebratory donuts after Princess Presslea went to see family for her birthday. The ambition level was high this month, with I, Stina, having been asked to speak to Ladysmith Primary School and then run a Public Speaking Workshop for the senior students in time for their Public Speaking competition. There was so much energy in the room, and the students were so bold and brave to try out new strategies and techniques to further improve their speeches. This workshop is now available to ALL Primary Schools. 

I, Presslea took part in the Superhero walk to support Autism Awareness at Lake Albert. I was joined by a very eager 7 year old, Dieter who kept me entertained with conversations our entire walk. A truly special day that I am very grateful I was invited to be apart of. I also go to decide on the best dressed participants but the number of amazing costumes and the effort that was put it, made it pretty difficult!

Whilst I, Stina, met with the Love Bites Co-ordinator Samantha George from Relationships Australia to discuss all things prevention and education within High Schools and Primary Schools of Family and Domestic Violence and to formulate a plan of involvement over the coming months.

As the month continued we were informed of the GREAT NEWS that there was once again 7 entrants for 2020, which we were thrilled to hear. The Quest continues to grow as young women bring their own flavour and passion into it and the community.  We have already met the entrants at their first Personal Development Session at The Roundabout Restaurant and created an opportunity to sit down and get to know each other at The Thirsty Crow. These young women are vibrant, enthusiastic and ready to step outside of their comfort zones. Their energy is infectious, and we cannot wait to journey with them on the next nine months of growth. Get Ready Ladies, these next few months will FLY!!!

The Easter weekend was a long and painful one for both of us, as we both received shocking news on a professional and personal front. The week gave us an opportunity to lean on each other and to support each other through the pain. We jumped at the chance to support Rotaract in their fundraising initiative of the Premiere of Avengers: Endgame. Being gigantic superhero fans, Marvel made us both laugh and cry in a packed cinema. We won’t add in any spoilers here however when all of the Marvel women came together to fight Thanos, we definitely had a “that’s empowering” grin across our faces. The couple of deaths in the movie had the entire cinema in tears however; Captain America’s perfect happily ever after made us smile again. Avengers: Endgame, we love you 3000 and are giving you 5 stars.

Following a late night at the movies, I, Presslea had a very early morning with the Gunfire breakfast and Dawn Service at Kapooka.

Whilst I, Stina, attended the HMAS Wagga Morning tea meeting with Navy Officers, and long standing members, hearing their stories of  this Bathurst-Class Corvette that was commissioned and manned by the Royal Australian Navy (RAN), ahead of Anzac Day. Anzac Day morning, I attended St. Michael’s Cathedral for mass, along side Deputy Prime Minister Michael McCormack and his wife Catherine McCormack, Mayor of Wagga Wagga Greg Conkey, and Member for Wagga Wagga Dr. Joe McGirr to pray for all those who sacrificed their lives for our freedom. We both then attended the ANZAC Day service at the Victory Memorial Gardens where we laid a wreath. The service was beautiful and a fantastic way to spend our ANZAC Day, once again it was overwhelming to see the thousands of people of our community fill the streets.

I, Stina, then attended the first night of Wagga Takes 2 which was just brilliant, with a hall full of exceptional energy, and even some secret talent.  Followed by taking part in the Easter Spectacular run by SMRFS – Specialist Medical Resources Foundation alongside many heroes and Disney princesses come to life. The cuteness level in the way the children and characters interacted was off the charts with children being twirled by Cinderella and Belle on the dance floor. The following evening, I was also able to attend the Night Vigil for Sri Lanka, that was put on by Wagga Wagga City Council, Multicultural Council and the Sri Lankan Community. The night was one of ongoing pain and grief, of horror and disbelief, how is it that we are here again? With each address and testimony our hearts joined in condolence, hope and prayer.

As the month draws to a close, there has been hours of hard work happening in the background for something Special that is coming for the VERY FIRST TIME and we cannot wait to share our Exciting News with you in the coming days.
 
Love from MWW & CP,
AKA your local Queen & Princess

Mammoth March

What a jam-packed month it’s been.

Sadly, the month started with a cancelled Gumi race, disappointing many in our community that had already created their rafts only to discover the river was barely at thigh level. Instead as the food vendors and entertainment carried on, the South Wagga Apex put on a duck race which brought on much joy and laughter for all. Rotary Club of Wagga Wagga invited Alexandra Tierney (Chair) and I (Stina) to speak at their meeting. Alex was able to speak about the quest and I was asked to share a bit about my story, journey in the quest and my desire for community change. After the talk and questions, I was presented with a truly moving gift from the Club; donating funds to vaccinate 10 children against Polio in gratitude for my presence. Truly touched! Then there were a variety of different meetings including meeting with a couple of people regarding TheDVProject2650 regarding a new prevention and attitude change approach to Family and Domestic Violence in Wagga, as well as meeting with Carolyn from Papel Paper to discuss future possibilities. The Papel Paper Studio is other worldly and left me (Stina) quite gobsmacked and inspired.

Visit Wagga then invited us to partake in a photoshoot with photographer Chloe from Victoria @_chloesmithphotography_, for their upcoming promotion material. We had so much fun laughing and being silly, enjoying the afternoon and sunset at a variety of venues around Wagga. The creative genius that Chloe brought created such a fun space and atmosphere, from hand and foot modelling, to action hero strides. Anything for a good laugh, and to promote our city.

We then turned the formal dial a few notches up as I (Stina) attended the March Citizenship Ceremony and met the lovely Aboriginal Elder Aunty Dot and chatted with her for a bit before helping the Mayor welcome our new citizens. Aunty Dot was an absolute pleasure to speak with and start to get to know. 

I (Presslea) was privileged to be invited to Wagga Wagga High School to assist with their ‘Chicktionary’ program and do a ‘What is Physical Health and Wellbeing’ workshop. The girls conducted a small PT session followed by a sit down chat about physical health, mental health, exercise, social media and nutrition. It was such a great afternoon in the sun with the girls.

On the 17th of March, I (Stina) was in attendance of the Night Prayer Vigil hosted by MARWA Muslim Association Riverina Wagga Wagga and Wagga City Council. The night was filled with sombre words, trying to express what only silence could adequately describe. There was an air of such incredible respect and unity as the candles flickered across the Victory Memorial Garden, only to later congregate along with flowers, and signs. With every head nod and greeting of ‘As-salamu alaykum’, Wagga’s oneness was evident. Together is the only way forward.

This then carried me (Stina) into Harmony Day which was a big one. It started with a whole school address at Kapooka Primary School on my personal journey to Australia, entering the Quest, becoming a titleholder and upcoming travel to Germany to visit our sister city. I was able to teach the students a couple of words in both Tamil (Sri Lankan) and Norwegian. The sound of their voices in unison saying ‘Vanakkam’ is a moment I will treasure for a long time to come. So surreal, and so special to share a moment of ‘I respect you’, fitting for Harmony Day. Then I was able to join in the day’s activities, answer questions in their classes and learn about the student’s heritage one on one. Some of those children well and truly stole my heart. From the young girl who wanted to know if I had a fancy car, a driver, and lived in a palace, to the young man who stopped mid-sentence only to say ‘I Feel odd inside... I just realised you’re standing right there, you’re Miss Wagga, and I’m talking to you, and that just makes me feel funny inside’.  AWWW!!! Kiddo, that makes me feel funny inside too, all warm and fuzzy!

From there, I went straight to Relationships Australia Canberra & Region’s office, to meet with the Domestic Violence Reference group, to share a bit about my journey, professional experience working with Families of Domestic Violence, and my desire to work towards prevention rather than awareness. After this I went directly to The Cancer Council and joined in, in an international lunch, followed by teaching some Cuban Dancing, and then chatting about Harmony Day. Really taking the time to dialogue about what it means, and what little things we can do to facilitate change in our society, away from discrimination.

In this last week, I (Stina) was able to also speak to the S.O.C.I.A.L Slimmers about my journey to Australia, my journey as an entrant and ambitions for the remainder of the role, followed by a Q&A from the 60+ members that were present. Questions included everything from ‘Do you want to be an Australian Citizen someday?’ through to ‘With how busy you are, how do you maintain your figure?’

The Q&A continued a few days later at Mater Dei Catholic College with the year 9 girls for their Wellbeing program. Community female leaders were invited to take part in a Speed Q&A for a few hours, where a group of girls in rotation, would ask anything they liked, from career to personal life and life choices. Some of the questions were quite deep, including conversations of discrimination, true feminism, challenges in high school, body image, confidence and pursuing something when people tell you, ‘you can’t’. There was a lot of de-bunking quest myths of pageantry, when I’ll be applying for Miss Universe, as well more thought provoking ‘will you miss being ambassador after November?’ Solid thinkers in that room, I’m hoping that I met a future Miss Wagga or Community Princess there, or better yet Wagga Mayor.    

The Month ended with The Sister City Meeting, the year is already flying by and before we know it we will be in Germany. We are both in the process of making our final plans for travel and are so excited. It was nice to meeting with the sister city committee and to see what deep conversations the committee have regarding ongoing relationships with other cities as well as potential future relationships.

A Mammoth month for sure, but we wouldn’t have it any other way.

If you would like the titleholders to attend your event, or speak to you community group/school etc. please contact our coordinator Sarah Navin on mwwqtitleholders@hotmail.com

Let’s go April!

Love from MWW & CP 
aka local Queen & Princess

​We hit the ground running fast in February and have been busy all month! We spent the first couple of weeks planning the months ahead and networking within the community, also searching for potential entrants for this year’s Quest. By mid-month we were flat out with events and meetings to attend and have enjoyed the busy month working in the community.

I (Stina) attended the Apology Day Ceremony at the Lagoon, marking 11 years since the Apology made by then Prime Minister Kevin Rudd for the stolen generation. The hurt and pain, was as evident on this day as it was 11 years ago. Though we have come a distance, there remains much room for healing from the trauma.

We had the pleasure of attending the Probus Meeting where we introduced ourselves and spoke about our background, journey on the quest and hopes for our year ahead. We were also pleasantly surprised to meet Miss Wagga Wagga 1957 Barbara Jenkins (Webb) (photo attached), who is a member of Probus. We thoroughly enjoy meeting past titleholder and hearing her journey through the quest and the years that followed. We felt so welcome at the meeting and appreciated getting to know those who attended.

We also attended the February Australian Citizenship Ceremony. Among the many new citizens, I (Stina) met Halima, originally from Bangladesh who had been on this citizenship journey for 12 years. As she shared her painful story of becoming an Australian citizen, and all her losses, a journey I can personally relate to, we embraced in a hug as the tears fell from her eyes. I met a woman of strength, resilience, and determination that day, and through her tears she gifted me a drop of those qualities to carry with me. Thank You Halima! Thank you for making this country your home.

We had the pleasure of attending the DCO gathering where several Defence Support Services came together to welcome our new Defence families to our Wagga Wagga Community. The event was held at Oasis Aquatic Centre which was fantastic for the kids and parents to cool off in the hot weather. We were welcomed by Mayor Greg Conkey, Deputy PM Michael McCormack and Catherine McCormack. It was a pleasure to meet the stall holders on the evening and learn about the services that our community provides to the Defence families. We also had the privilege of cutting the cake on the evening.

To finish off the month I (Stina) spent a few hours at the CSU Market Day, meeting new and returning University Student, chatting to them about the Quest, and what the City of Wagga Wagga has to offer. On route, I also bumped into Herbie and Dane from Hit Fm, and some of the local nurses from the Red Cross Blood Service. As we had several young ladies put their names down for more information to become entrants, Applications have Now Been Extended to Monday 4th March. There is still time, if you would like to enter to be a city ambassador and make a meaningful contribution to our community.
 
Yours Truly,
MWW & CP
AKA your local Queen & Princess

 Starting the year with burst of colour...

In this new year of 2019, we wish you all a year of peace, growth and immense joy regardless of where life places you, or what stage of life you may be in. Just know that you are valued, and needed in our community, and there is ALWAYS a helping hand around the corner… or in our case, 2 sets.

Ready to start the year with our sleeves rolled up, I (Stina) attended the Wagga Sky Works hosted by Thomas Brothers with a number of sponsors with proceeds going towards Country Hope. I was able to meet with some of the Country Hope volunteers and greeted patrons and store holders alike with a fellow Quest Entrant of 2018, Clare Lawlor prior to retiring to the VIP tent for a well deserved drink. Many Country Hope families were also present, and together we watched the magic that is the fireworks display take place in front of our eyes, with the sky being lit with bursts of colour, hearts racing with a choir of ‘OOOOO …Aaaaah’

January 8th marked the end of the Royal Blood Drive, and I sat down with Neil Wright from the Wagga Wagga Blood Donor Centre to discuss how the drive went (see Facebook page for video). It was a HUGE success, with Wagga Leading the charge over every other blood bank in the state in both Blood and Plasma donations, well above average for this time of year. A HUGE CONGRATULATIONS to the Wagga Wagga Community for Saving Lives. I was so touched by the number of people who made their very first donation as a Royal Donor.

Both of us then sat down with the Mayor of Wagga Wagga Greg Conkey to discuss our role, and our plans as well as the various initiatives we would be working together on. We’re both very excited to be getting more and more involved in our community.

The eve of 25th Jan began with a Mayoral Reception for Award nominees for Australia Day, followed by the Awards Ceremony where Mr Conkey OAM, Mr McGirr MP, Comedian & Australia Day Ambassador Dane Simpson and I (Stina) were able to address those present. Being able to speak to a Civic Theatre full of the City’s most generous people and their family and friends, was quite the privilege (see Facebook page for video of speech). Having shared what living in Australia means to me I was overwhelmed by the number of people who wanted to speak with me afterwards. The ceremony saw Alan Lean named Citizen of the Year, Matthew Lennon was named Young Citizen of the Year, and the newest name to be added to the Walk of Honour was revealed to be Cecil ‘Bob’ Scott.

Saturday 26th Morning we braced the heat to take part in the Citizenship Ceremony welcoming new Australians to our community. There was a glimmer in the eyes of our new citizens the moment they finished taking their pledge, almost as if to say ‘We made it’. We also met with some sweet children who we’re barracking for as future Entrants and Potential titleholders, Including a huge Quest Supporter, Ariba Omar Saba, as well as Zoe Willis and Zoe Muller (2 of 4 National Anthem Winners). 
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The month concludes with some much needed recharge and reflection of what has been in order to prepare for what lies ahead. With a new Committee to be confirmed around the corner, and new entrants in the coming months, there is much excitement ahead. As two women who got so much out of working with a good group of passionate and driven women we encourage women in Wagga to embrace this opportunity. Entrant applications Close February 22nd, and we will both be there every step of the way to cheer you on and support you in any way we can to see you reach your goals.
 
Yours truly, 
MWW & CP 
aka local Queen & Princess